A Letter to My Younger Self
As I sit here, contemplating turning 46, there are so many things I wish I could have told myself when I was younger. In the same breath, the unknown and what some deemed as ignorance, has led me to this place. I have truly accomplished more in my lifetime than I ever thought possible. If I would have told myself back when I was 16 what the road ahead would look like, I may not have believed it... any of it. Was it easy? Heck no, but was it worth it? Absolutely!
In celebration of another year, I want to pause and share those things I wish I could tell my younger self that would have meaning and add value not only to my life, but to yours as well.
Just Because Someone Says Something Does Not Make it True
I went to a Christian school that loved to remind me what a rebel I was and tell me how I would turn out based on what they perceived as rebellion and guess what, God thought differently. I would remind myself of that when being spoken over by individuals. Consider the source and remember that what they think and how they perceive you does not necessarily line up with how God sees you.
In your lifetime, you will likely have people speak their definition of truth into your life. Take it all with a grain of salt. Many times, they have the best of intentions, but remember to trust yourself and the word of God above all else.
You Do Not Have to Graduate College to be a Huge Success
I always heard it said that only college graduates succeed and do well in life. I saw myself as falling short, which would always hold me back, when in reality, I saw success without that piece of paper, but boy did that lie play with my head!
I would tell my younger self to keep doing what you are doing. Remember, God is capable of doing far more than any college degree you can hang on your wall. He will provide for you and use you with or without that piece of paper, trust me.
Make The Mistake But Forgive Yourself and Those Around You
Resentment is real and for a long time, I would let that emotion affect me and my day to day life. Over time, I came to realize that it was in my best interest to let go of all the resentment I held to so tightly. It is so freeing to live with no regrets. Life is too short to hold onto the past.
While I was not perfect and made my share of mistakes in life, all of them have brought me to where I am today. As I turn 46, I have a sense of overwhelming gratitude to God, my incredible husband, family and friends. This journey we are given is so special. Don’t waste it holding onto the past or anxiously awaiting the future.
To my younger self I would add, get ready because you are going to move mountains!
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